As you know by now, I believe that how you present yourself, online and in person, goes a long way in communicating your message to your audience. I've noticed many unintentional changes to American English that should be avoided at all costs to maintain a professional front. I have ranted about a few of these recently (see my earlier post) and now I'll focus on a few more items that are either ungrammatical or simply are not words.
1. Gratefulness: No such word! We seem to have a tendency to create nouns from adjectives, even though there are perfectly good nouns already in place! Try GRATITUDE instead. I am grateful that I feel gratitude.
2. Invite: a verb. You send an invitation to invite people to an event.
3. He wrote about you and I . . . Jim and me went to the store . . . confusion between a subject and object of the pronoun. Huh? Easiest way to remember is to say it without the other person. Me went to the store . . . I don't think so! Jim and I went to the store. And the other half of that issue "between you and I." Take the sentence apart to see if it still makes sense: "He wrote about you" is fine. "He wrote about I" is, well, not. It should be "he wrote about you and me" . . . object not subject.
4. Irregardless: No such word! The "Ir" doesn't belong there. Regardless is a perfectly good word on its own.
5. Do you want to lay down? Wrong! If you're talking about getting horizontal, the verb is "lie". Do you want to lay that heavy box down? If you're talking about an object, the verb is "lay." I won't even get into the past tense confusions between those!
6. Orientated: No such word! To get oriented to your new position, you should go to an orientation meeting.
7. It's literally killing me! Well I hope to goodness that's not true, because it'd mean someone is stabbing, shooting or otherwise attempting your demise! Remember that "literally" means "truly", "really", "absolutely."
There are more to rant over, but I'll stop now . . . you're welcome! I understand that languages evolve over time, where once-accepted words become archaic, and where slang becomes accepted language. However, grammatical mistakes like the ones above can make it harder to project a professional, expert image, so don't lay down on the job, irregardless of what you and me think. HA!
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